Lesson 21. Pastoral Counseling
A.Basis
1.Bible
2.Experience
3.Not professional counseling
4.Prayer and work of Holy Spirit
B.Principles
1.Respect for individuals and their power of choice
2.Guide and facilitate, not dictate; authority based on the Word
3.Confidentiality
C.Implementation
1.Schedule a time
2.Pray
3.Listen
4.Empathize
5.Instill hope
6.Ask for commitment to change
7.Focus on action; focus on solution rather than problem or blame
8.Guide the person in recognizing the problem, considering options, and planning solution
9.Relationships: focus on top priorities for each person
10.Provide resources: handouts, books, DVDs, other counselors
11.Give prescription and possibly homework
12.Discuss follow-up
13.Plan an ending, typically including prayer
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